When things are going wrong and you have no control over whatever it is that is happening, do not focus on how it will happen.
Focus on allowing it to happen. I know it may sound a bit silly and perhaps borders on foolishness to some, but there are moments in life where you can’t avoid what befalls you; good or bad. The world is an unpredictable place. Sometimes wonderfully, sometimes not. So keep your eyes open. Make room in your heart. Certain things can only come with time and patience, and those moments are almost always fleeting. Allow life to happen. And as you do allow it to, allow yourself to hope. Hope for better things to come even when things to come because sometimes even the good things are the things in your life you cannot control. But then again, why would you want to?